Last fall, I was exasperated because of a number of pressing frustrations I was dealing with. It caused me to have frequent paralyzing anxiety attacks, and produced bitterness and a crusty shell of lovelessness in my heart for others. I know all the verses, I have read all the books and heard all the sermons, but the fog would not lift. Yet, on Thanksgiving Day, I arose early to sit with my son for one of our annual traditions that I used to enjoy as a child with my father -- watching the parade on television. Anyone who has watched the parade for a number of years will know what I mean when I say that it has become more of a song and dance show than an actual parade. Usually that frustrates me. I want to see floats and balloons and marching bands. I don't want to see kick-lines and Broadway troupes and the stars of the new fall lineups. But I decided to endure a performance by Josh Groban. I had heard him sing before, and thought he had a tremendous voice and a good taste for timeless songs. On Thanksgiving Day, he sang a song called "You Are Loved (Don't Give Up)." And listening to the words of that song, I felt the embrace of God over me, and was lifted up from my despair to apply all those spiritual truths which I knew, but which I had ignored, avoided, and given up on during those stressful days.
Since that time, I have kept that song in the playlist on my iPod and find myself listening to it often. I am not a music video fan. I have never seen the music video for the song, and don't even know if one exists. But every time I listen to "You Are Loved," a series of images passes through my mind. These are the images I see on a near daily basis. I see the desperation on the streets around my church -- lives ruined by drug addiction, alcoholism, prostitution, mental illness. I find the scenes of families mourning at gravesides; lonely people lying in hospital beds on ventilators with no loved ones at their sides; people all around us trying to pretend to have it all together, when inside they are falling apart.
If I was to radically obey the words of the Apostle Paul when he says in Epehsians 5 that we are to be filled with the Holy Spirit, "speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs," then I would be pointing people to the 34th and 91st Psalms and singing these words to them and encouraging them to feel the loving embrace of their Father in Heaven as He comforts them with these promises. The singer isn't citing scripture, and I don't even know if the writer of the song had God in mind when he wrote it. But every promise in this song parallels a promise God has given us in His Word. As I copy the lyrics here, I will insert in parenthesis some of the places God has made these comforting promises of assurance to us:
Don't give up; It's just the weight of the world
When you're heart's heavy, I will lift it for you (1 Peter 5:7)
Don't give up; Because you want to be heard
If silence keeps you, I will break it for you (Matthew 10:19-20)
Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you (Philippians 4:6-7)
Everybody wants to be loved
Don't give up
Because you are loved (Galatians 2:20)
Don't give up; It's just the hurt that you hide
When you lost inside, I will be there to find you (Luke 19:10)
Don't give up; Because you want to burn bright
If darkness blinds you, I will shine to guide you (Psalm 119:105; Matthew 5:14-16)
Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don't give up
Because you are loved